City slickers and country folk have long debated whether life is better in town or in the wide-open spaces, and urbane is a term that springs from the throes of that debate. In its earliest English uses, urbane was synonymous with its close relative urban ("of, relating to, characteristic of, or constituting a city"). Both words come from the Latin adjective urbanus ("urban, urbane"), which in turn is derived from urbs, meaning "city." Urbane developed its modern sense denoting savoir faire from the belief (no doubt fostered by city dwellers) that living in the city made one more suave and polished than did leading a rural life.
suave suggests a specific ability to deal with others easily and without friction.
a suave public relations coordinator
urbane implies high cultivation and poise coming from wide social experience.
an urbane traveler
diplomatic stresses an ability to deal with ticklish situations tactfully.
a diplomatic negotiator
bland emphasizes mildness of manner and absence of irritating qualities.
a bland master of ceremonies
smooth suggests often a deliberately assumed suavity.
a smooth salesman
politic implies shrewd as well as tactful and suave handling of people.
a cunningly politic manager
Example Sentences
The dialogue is witty and urbane. a gentlemanly and urbane host of elegant dinner parties
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