embarrass implies some influence that impedes thought, speech, or action.
the question embarrassed her so much she couldn't answer
discomfit implies a hampering or frustrating accompanied by confusion.
hecklers discomfited the speaker
abash presupposes some initial self-confidence that receives a sudden check, producing shyness, shame, or a feeling of inferiority.
abashed by her swift and cutting retort
disconcert implies an upsetting of equanimity or assurance producing uncertainty or hesitancy.
disconcerted by finding so many in attendance
rattle implies an agitation that impairs thought and judgment.
rattled by all the television cameras
Example Sentences
felt terribly abashed when she walked into the wrong hotel room
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Word History
Etymology
Middle English abaissen, abaschen "to lose one's composure," borrowed from Anglo-French abaiss-, stem of abair "to open wide, gape, be amazed," alteration (by prefix substitution) of esbaer (Continental Old French esbahir), from es- "out" (going back to Latin ex-) + baer "to open wide, gape," going back to Vulgar Latin *batāre — more at ex- entry 1, abeyance